Have you ever found your fantasies a tad disturbing...? I tend to fantasize about things that some people may not consider normal. They never involve anything illegal or hurtful to others, but they are certainly odd. I've had homoerotic fantasies, group situations, 3somes, 4somes, BDSM, humiliation, CFNM, SPH, etc. Truthfully, I've never done anything and by all standards I have a pretty uneventful sex-life that is rather normal for a married man, but I have had more and more odd fantasies that I dream about in my sleep.
What could it all mean? |
Yes I fantasize about the most disturbing things ... way weirder than you.
Yet in real life I have a very tame sex life and am quite sexually timid. |
Cfnm - does anyone actually do this? Or is it just fantasy? Clothed Female Naked Male humiliation scenes etc seem to be popular on the net. But do women actually like this or is it just a male perverted fantasy? Would women really enjoy humiliating a naked man? If they do, is it satisfying any sexual appetite or just a bit of entertainment? |
I know half a dozen dommes who enjoy this as a part of femdom play.
for women its more about the power than the visual stimulation of seeing (another) penis |
I am soo embarrassed. Please help!!!!!? Hi, I am a 18 year old guy and a senior. I am so extremely embarrassed about this situation. I appreciate any advice. I have a 16 year old sister Brooke who is a sophomore. She also is pretty immature but I guess after I tell you this, I will sound immature as well. I was in my bedroom one day and I got done with my homework early. I started writing about a sexual fantasy about some of the girls in high school including Brooke's cheerleader friends. It wasn't even about sex. It was a clothed female, nude male (CFNM) small penis humiliation fantasy where the girls were all clothed making fun of my tiny thing. I mean it was just supposed to be just for my eyes only but Brooke went to grab something off my desk in my room and saw the letter and read it. She was stunned and thinks its so funny. Two of the girls Elizabeth and Erin were in the story. I know she is going to tell them. Im just afraid that when I go to school next week, I am going to have girls laughing and raising their pinky fingers at me. What should I do? How should I approach Brooke? |
| Learn a lesson and in the future, avoid putting anything compromising in writing. If it is written on paper, sooner or later someone will read it. |
I am soo embarrassed. Please help!!!!!? Hi, I am a 18 year old guy and a senior. I am so extremely embarrassed about this situation. I appreciate any advice. I have a 16 year old sister Brooke who is a sophomore. She also is pretty immature but I guess after I tell you this, I will sound immature as well. I was in my bedroom one day and I got done with my homework early. I started writing about a sexual fantasy about some of the girls in high school including Brooke's cheerleader friends. It wasn't even about sex. It was a clothed female, nude male (CFNM) small penis humiliation fantasy where the girls were all clothed making fun of my tiny thing. I mean it was just supposed to be just for my eyes only but Brooke went to grab something off my desk in my room and saw the letter and read it. She was stunned and thinks its so funny. Two of the girls Elizabeth and Erin were in the story. I know she is going to tell them. Im just afraid that when I go to school next week, I am going to have girls laughing and raising their pinky fingers at me. What should I do? How should I approach Brooke? |
| trust me, i doubt she will tell anyone... anyway you could kinda lie to her, say a friend wrote it and wanted you to read it.... like go up to her and say' hey, look umm i was wondering if you were gona tell anyone about that letter on my desk, coz i don't want my friend to be embarrassed, he wanted me to read it... |
I am soo embarrassed. Please help!!!!!? Hi, I am a 18 year old guy and a senior. I am so extremely embarrassed about this situation. I appreciate any advice. I have a 16 year old sister Brooke who is a sophomore. She also is pretty immature but I guess after I tell you this, I will sound immature as well. I was in my bedroom one day and I got done with my homework early. I started writing about a sexual fantasy about some of the girls in high school including Brooke's cheerleader friends. It wasn't even about sex. It was a clothed female, nude male (CFNM) small penis humiliation fantasy where the girls were all clothed making fun of my tiny thing. I mean it was just supposed to be just for my eyes only but Brooke went to grab something off my desk in my room and saw the letter and read it. She was stunned and thinks its so funny. Two of the girls Elizabeth and Erin were in the story. I know she is going to tell them. Im just afraid that when I go to school next week, I am going to have girls laughing and raising their pinky fingers at me. What should I do? How should I approach Brooke? |
You know what? You are suffering even before your embarassment. You are stressed out over something that hasn't happened yet. Now unless you are psychic, or God or something, it is useless to worry over the future. Try to focus on what you are doing *right this minute* and your stress will decrease. You are embarrassed over something that hasn't happened yet.
It may be that your sister is sensitive enough that she will realize your predicament and not tell her friends. Girls that age can surprise you. At any rate, the matter is out of your hands, there's nothing you can do about it, so there's no point in worrying about what will happen. You are giving yourself many times more stress than the real situation actually would.
Let the situation unfold as it may. Just accept it.
Good luck. =) |
I am soo embarrassed. Please help!!!!!? I am soo embarrassed. Please help!!!!!?
Hi, I am a 18 year old guy and a senior. I am so extremely embarrassed about this situation. I appreciate any advice. I have a 16 year old sister Brooke who is a sophomore. She also is pretty immature but I guess after I tell you this, I will sound immature as well. I was in my bedroom one day and I got done with my homework early. I started writing about a sexual fantasy about some of the girls in high school including Brooke's cheerleader friends. It wasn't even about sex. It was a clothed female, nude male (CFNM) small penis humiliation fantasy where the girls were all clothed making fun of my tiny thing. I mean it was just supposed to be just for my eyes only but Brooke went to grab something off my desk in my room and saw the letter and read it. She was stunned and thinks its so funny. Two of the girls Elizabeth and Erin were in the story. I know she is going to tell them. Im just afraid that when I go to school next week, I am going to have girls laughing and raising their pinky fingers at me. What should I do? How should I approach Brooke? |
| I smell a troll. |
I am soo embarrassed. Please help!!!!!? Hi, I am a 18 year old guy and a senior. I am so extremely embarrassed about this situation. I appreciate any advice. I have a 16 year old sister Brooke who is a sophomore. She also is pretty immature but I guess after I tell you this, I will sound immature as well. I was in my bedroom one day and I got done with my homework early. I started writing about a sexual fantasy about some of the girls in high school including Brooke's cheerleader friends. It wasn't even about sex. It was a clothed female, nude male (CFNM) small penis humiliation fantasy where the girls were all clothed making fun of my tiny thing. I mean it was just supposed to be just for my eyes only but Brooke went to grab something off my desk in my room and saw the letter and read it. She was stunned and thinks its so funny. Two of the girls Elizabeth and Erin were in the story. I know she is going to tell them. Im just afraid that when I go to school next week, I am going to have girls laughing and raising their pinky fingers at me. What should I do? How should I approach Brooke? |
| If you are really into CFNM then you should be happy about the whole situation. Who knows... Maybe they'll want to see it in real life. It could happen... BTW, is it really that tiny? How small are we talking here? |
I am soo embarrassed. Please help!!!!!? Hi, I am a 18 year old guy and a senior. I am so extremely embarrassed about this situation. I appreciate any advice. I have a 16 year old sister Brooke who is a sophomore. She also is pretty immature but I guess after I tell you this, I will sound immature as well. I was in my bedroom one day and I got done with my homework early. I started writing about a sexual fantasy about some of the girls in high school including Brooke's cheerleader friends. It wasn't even about sex. It was a clothed female, nude male (CFNM) small penis humiliation fantasy where the girls were all clothed making fun of my tiny thing. I mean it was just supposed to be just for my eyes only but Brooke went to grab something off my desk in my room and saw the letter and read it. She was stunned and thinks its so funny. Two of the girls Elizabeth and Erin were in the story. I know she is going to tell them. Im just afraid that when I go to school next week, I am going to have girls laughing and raising their pinky fingers at me. What should I do? How should I approach Brooke? |
This is tough. But what may be best would be to go to your sister and sit down and talk with her. Without making her feel you're not on her wave length. Talk to her on her level and show respect.
Tell her that you were only writing down "just dumb things" because you were bored or out of a joke to yourself something like that and just happened to put the girls names you mentioned just because "they happened to come to mind at the time". Tell her you were only meaning it for yourself and to please respect that. Make sure to show her respect also. Respect is earned by respecting others. Let her know that you value her respect. And hope that she will do the same and never mention it.
Just remember if you know something on her that will be an embarrassment to her, to never mention it.
So let her know you respect her to be a young adult and don't think of her as guyish. If she can be adult enough to respect your privacy, you will do the same for her. That's the adult way to handle things.
Guyish ways would be to hit her, embarrass her, etc.
Sit down and talk with her as mature young adults and let her know you want to respect her and would like for her to do the same. Tell her you care about her and would not try to embarrass her if the shoe were on her foot because that would be guyish. |